Words have a powerful impact. I don’t believe that most people intend to cause harm when they use threatening or insulting language; however, over the past few years, I have watched as community members, neighbors, and friends have become desensitized to the impact of their words and actions. This desensitization is scary because it is an implicit justification that it is OK to treat others unkindly, especially if they disagree with you.
I was raised to believe the only pathway toward true justice is nonviolence. Anger never persuades another to see your point of view. Harassment and bullying are not effective communication tactics, and threats and violence erode the ability to build trust. I fundamentally believe my responsibility as a citizen, a Christian, and a good human is to unconditionally love my neighbor and treat others as I want to be treated. I was raised this way and I honor those who raised me by striving to be kind to everyone, always.
And yet here I am, writing a commentary because, in 2023, I experienced an unexpected level of vitriol from both sides of the aisle. Whether it is because of my stance on fundamental human rights or my support of one progressive candidate over another, I have been subject to all manner of online and in-person bullying and harassment tactics. None of it is OK.
I ran for office because I want to make tomorrow better for every Alaskan. I don’t expect everyone to agree with my approach to public policy, and I welcome the disagreement and subsequent dialogue. I am privileged to be a member of a bipartisan coalition of lawmakers in the Alaska State Senate, where I hear from multiple perspectives on every issue. Those conversations, while some of them very difficult, are rooted in civility and kindness. I wholeheartedly believe we all want a better tomorrow for every Alaskan.
This is why the approach from those outside of the Alaska State Capitol is so perplexing to me. If we want our policymakers to build toward a better future, how does that happen when we make their jobs so untenable? We need good people in government to stay and find pathways forward, rather than quit and walk away in disgust.
Whether it is defacing road signs, sending thinly veiled threats on social media, or harassing people in the grocery store — this behavior is unacceptable. Bullying, harassment, and threats to anyone serving in political office are not OK. Please remember that these elected officials are our neighbors who have stepped up to do the hard work of governance. These people are giving their time and talent to improve our communities, whether you agree with them or not.
Nothing I am writing here means that elected officials should not be held accountable for their actions and forthright with voters and constituents about issues. It is the fundamental job of the people to be civically engaged but how we hold people accountable matters. We can treat each other with kindness and get our message across. It is possible to disagree and still work together toward a better tomorrow.
In 2024, I implore you to please be kind. Imagine you are on the receiving end of whatever message you send and ask yourself how you would receive those same words. I am convinced that our communities and our society would be much better if we treated each other with a little more kindness.
It is time for season 2 of The Empty Office Podcast.
I love podcasts. Every day, I listen to the Marketplace Morning Report and Alaska News Nightly. Each week, I look forward to the release of KCRW’s Left, Right, and Center, NPR’s Code Switch, and the East Anchorage Book Club, which is produced by my friend and colleague Rep. Andrew Gray. I love podcasts so much that last year, during my first year in the Alaska Legislature, I started my own podcast with Mike Mason who works on my staff. Mike is a veteran commercial and public radio broadcaster and journalist.
Last year, during our inaugural season of The Empty Office Podcast, we had some amazing conversations about public policy and the politics of the Alaska State Legislature. It is hard to choose my favorite episode from season 1, but listeners overwhelming seemed to enjoy our interview with Senate Rules Chair Bill Wielechowski and I personally really enjoyed talking with Superintendent of the Haines Borough School District. Roy Getchell was so passionate about public education in Alaska that I came away enthusiastic about the future.
We have some great episodes scheduled for season 2 of The Empty Office Podcast, which begins on Sunday, January 14. The first episode of season 2 will feature a thoughtful discussion about homelessness, religion, and politics with Reverand Matt Schultz. He’s a pastor at the First Presbyterian Church of Anchorage and sits on the steering committee for Christians for Equality. You might know Matt Schultz from his very well-written commentaries in the Anchorage Daily News on a variety of topics including the homelessness crisis in Anchorage.
Season 2 of The Empty Office Podcast begins on January 14. You can listen and subscribe to the podcast on Substack, Spotify, and the Apple podcast app.
Thank you for your service. I am so sorry that it has come with unkindness. Please know that there are many many who are grateful for your willingness to lead. May the year ahead be kinder and gentler in rhetoric and deed.
Thank you, Senator, for stepping up to serve your community. It was great meeting you this summer at the joint transportation committee meeting. Actually, it was in the parking lot w the DOT commish. HAHA. Keep the Faith and Rock the House (er....Senate). #kindness